Archive for July 31st, 2009
Local “Stepfamily” Counselor Celebrates Baby’s Death
Wow, I couldn’t believe this until I saw it myself. Indianapolis “stepfamily counselor” Kela Price published something I find quite astonishing for someone who claims she is for children. Here is her bio from the Examiner, where she recently posted an article titled “Children speak up about relationships with their fathers post divorce“:
Kela Price has been an ex/second wife, mom/stepmom for over 8 yrs. As Founder of www.blendedfamilysoapopera.com and a Certified Stepfamily Counselor, she is well-versed when it comes to divorce and remarriage issues. Kela can be reached at kela@blendedfamilysoapopera.com.
Second wives are often recruited to the Father’s Rights movement, to show they have women on board with them and give them more credibility. Often though, after several years, the FR groups will throw them away when they have lost their usefulness. They are easy recruits…they see what their current husbands deal with their exwives and the children.
Kela recently published an article on her local blog called “Blended family karma – what goes around always comes back around.”
Read what Kela gets miffed over:
Two weeks ago my husband went to visit his son (he lives 3 hours way). Two weeks prior to that, he informed his ex-wife that he was coming to see him play in his baseball game. She responded by giving him directions and the phone number to the facility just in case he got lost.
Gee, sounds pretty nice of her to do that, I know a lot of custodial fathers who would not do that, much less even let the moms see their own kids.
When he got there the game was being cancelled due to rain, so he told his son (K) that he’d take him out to dinner instead. K was excited and ran to tell his mom that he was going out to dinner with my husband and she said no because they had plans. My husband told her that they couldn’t have plans because they had planned to be at the baseball game but it was cancelled. He took him to dinner anyway and returned him to her home 2 hours later.
That is pretty crappy, they had plans and her husband took him anyway….oh well. Life goes on, dad had dinner with son. This is where it gets nasty…the very next paragraph, still carrying on about the same event:
At nine months pregnant she was still up to her old game of “keep away.” I couldn’t believe that she had the energy or even the desire to do so. There was absolutely no reason why she shouldn’t have agreed to let him go. Did she really expect my husband to drive 3 hours to see his son for 5 minutes and then leave? Surely not. My husband came home really upset; mainly because of the position that she put K in. He didn’t want to argue with her in front of K, but he also didn’t want to turn around after driving 3 hours and not spend any time with his son. It was a tough decision and he didn’t understand why he had to be in that position in the first place. He was tired and completely frustrated with the situation and we all have been for quite some time now. Two days later, while walking our dog, my husband received a phone call from a very emotional K saying that his mother LOST THE BABY! She was 36 weeks pregnant, went into the hospital for spotting and the doctors told her that the baby had no heartbeat. The universe is shifting!
It is no coincidence that the same woman who snatched my husband’s son away from him after years of developing a close bond and wonderful relationship with him and for no reason at all, had her baby snatched away as well. Hopefully now she and her husband truly understand what it feels like to love, prepare for, bond with and sacrifice so much for a child, only to have him snatched away for reasons that can’t be explained…
Well, I don’t have the words now for this “certified” counselor. Telling a mom she deserves to have her baby die is very wicked. I hope that Indianapolis people become aware of this so-called “counselor” and how she really feels about children. Who in the hell certified her? They need to know about this! I believe she may need some heavy-duty counseling for herself and her own twisted issues. Kela Price puts the monster into Stepmonster…
To the mom who lost her baby, my condolences to you dear.
Also see: Leading Lambs to the Slaughter…
